The attempt to strengthen your position and emphasize your positive qualities is an illusion and a chase after the reflection around the mirror circle. But how do you prove to yourself you are special and have no need to prove it?
There is one more feedback chain by which the cause eliminates the effect. You have to consciously redirect your intention: rather than trying to prove yourself or show off you have to give up all attempts to increase your own significance.
When a person manages to stop (and we all know that practically everyone in does this in their own way) the people around you intuitively sense that your significance does not need to be confirmed.
And as this is so, people are more drawn to them and begin treating them with more respect. As result the heart and mind are gradually penetrated with conviction that “I am in fact worth something”
There comes a moment when the mirror circle grinds to a halt, turns in the opposite direction and starts moving towards you.
Self-esteem improves and it is as if there never was an inferiority complex at all.